Mean Girls

I hate fucking women! Someone said that to me a few days ago and it made me so happy because I thought it was just me. We watch shows like sex and the city and we want that. We want girls that will be our best friend forever. Girls you dont have to worry will ever sleep with your boyfriend, Grils who there for you even when you claim you want to be alone. So why is that so hard. Loyalty is gone from friendship. Call me old fashion but I still believe that if you are my friend I don't judge you to your face or behind your back. I don't talk about you to other people even under the guise of fake concern, And if someone mistreats you I take that more personally then you do. Dont get me wrong I am not now and will most likely never be the perfect friend. I'm just tired of spending time building friendships only to realize the other person is not worth your time. Me I can be bitchy, and negative on a regular basis all steaming from my lack of self esteem. If your my friend you can be yourself bitchiness and all. So why do I keep attracking posers. Women who don't know who they are and so they pretend, and when they find someone cooler to pretend with that stop pretending you are their friend. I'm proud of one thing though that I have the ablity to walk away from people like that. " When people show you who they are...Believe them" and even though I still don't have the answers to Mean Girls problem I do know one thing for sure " If someone wants to walk out of your life, let them go"...

Do you ever feel like you never get anything acomplished. I mean you plan to do things, make a list and a year later it hasn't done. When I told people I was going vegan, Nobody believed me. I can't blame them I not so sure I believed me to be honest. I remember hearing this statistic when I was a teenager that anything that you wanna change in your life wheather its being overwieght a smoker anything that if you change by the age of 25 you are more likely for the change to stick. I kept that in the back of my mind. On my twenty-five birthday I was scared and motivated enough to make changs. Earlier that year my grandmother died of cancer and two years piror my great-grandmother died from complications related to heart disease. I turned 25 on june 8 2012 and a few week later I changed my life. It started out being just about wieght and as I begin to make changes it became about finding enough self love to change everything. Everything I didn't like...

This blog wont just be about wieght loss or fashion it will about a complete lifestyle change. one I am in the process of right now

xoxo

hello

Do you blog? how insulting. Its the kinda thing you ask a certin kind of person when its meant as a backhanded compliment. So why start a blog. My life is a mess to put it simple. I grant you it's no where near as bad as this time last year but still a mess. So I guess this blog is my motivational tool to continue my progress. So more about me. I am 26 years old and in the middle of a complete makeover. I am making over the complete person both in side and outside. I have lost 65 pounds in the last year. A lot yes, but  sadly still about 40 left I am vegan but only for health reasons.ONLY. please dont misunderstand I am glad that animals dont die because of me but thats not why  I do it.  A few months after I went vegan I discovered I had allergies to both gluten ( yes I know trendy but true) abd soy. So know I am a vegan gluten and soy free person. This from the person who watched food inc while eating a hamburger I know. But believe or not Im happy this way and my health lifestyle has made me want to change so much more. I think for the better. Do not misunderstand me I am not a preachy person who now thinks everyone should be vegan I dont think that at all. I just doing the best I can in all aspects of life. So thats just a little about me. My intention for this blog is for it to be about Fashion food fun laughing more and being as happy as possible. I hope to reach out to people, to start a conversation. My only rules for this blog will be no hate, no judgment, no lies....


I look forwad to sharing more....\


xoxo
chauntal